The Grinch Bride

“The Grinch Bride” is a particular type of bride. She’s not a bridezilla. She’s not a cool bride. She definitely isn’t a happy-go-lucky bride either.

The Grinch Bride is the type of bride I was: Excited to get married, but kicking and screaming through the entire planning process.

After my own tumultuous engagement period, I started creating honest content about how to survive wedding planning. I share informative videos and have written a guide.

The Grinch Bride’s Guide to Planning a Wedding Without Losing Her Mind

Grinch Brides want to be married, but find the entire wedding process to be somewhat ridiculous. Sometimes it seems like they don’t want to be married at all, even if their ambivalence stems more from the wedding than the commitment itself. The stress and pageantry of the wedding can sometimes make them lose sight of their “why."

This guide is written from the queen of the Grinch Brides herself: Me. I resisted the wedding until the last moment, which was the day itself – which was the best day of my life.

A year after my wedding, I've created the guide I wished I had. It centers meaning and ritual, rather than acquiring items and creating a pageant.

What you'll find:

  • What I learned from my weddings about life, engagement and everything

  • Thought exercises to reframe your wedding

  • Tangible tips for surviving wedding planning

  • Recommended reading

  • My specific experience

I invite you to learn from my experiences and share your own, so that we can create the one thing that will help us through: Community.